How zero discipline inspired my 2021 intention

Sufficiently stuffed with chocolate 🍫and swamped in Disney this past week 💫🎉, I luxuriously plunged myself into a week off from coaching and my business with almost zero discipline for doing... aanything. It was totally on purpose and totally luxurious. Despite all that, I still found myself in moments of guilt as my brain heaped on an automatic tirade of how it thought I "should" be spending my time.

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You catch my drift? Those 'shoulds' that make you feel like a lemon 🍋, a flop, a dud or a failure if you're not making the most of every millisecond or being a superwoman productivity powerbank (even on a week off).

Just me? Yeah, I didn't think so.

Anyway, that's my vulner-share for the day. As a life coach, my already recovering perfectionistic self feels even more pressured to achieve 'perfection' (what even is that?!) when you put the life coach name to my role in the world.


Purposefully not being disciplined or productive was quite hard to be with, but I also know I need to healthily cut needing to be that from time to time. I've found that without such regimentation, more of my natural self and creativity begins to arise. Too much regime and I and who I really am can feel stifled, which leads me to one of my main intentions coming into 2021: Self expression. Dynamism. Being more of my multiplicit self (that many of those "shoulds" can stifle). There's more than just 1 or 2 sides to each of us. It's time to embrace them all. 🤗


Do you have any intentions coming into 2021? If so, I'd love to hear below ⬇️


P.s. this beaut of a tree has finally been taken down. 😢 Who else gets a little sad when the xmas decs come down?

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